Friday, January 01, 2010

Life has been Faithful, even when people have not!

Wow... where to begin. It has been a while since last blogging and life has been zooming and dragging at times. ALOT has changed.... but in being true to myself and faithful to my God, Life has been Faithful to me.... even in the midst of a marriage ending in unfaithfulness. That which was meant for my harm, has been turned and has resulted in such a blessing in life that I am truly thankful for God's faithfulness.

They say: That which doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. This wasn't life threatening stuff I went through, but it did kill parts of me. So the old adage is put on the shelf for the moment. I died in many areas only to have them resurrected and shown to me in a different light. Going through infidelity, separation, divorce, deciding custody... all of the ugly things that can happen in relationship with another... had been, at times, devastating, bottom-of-the-barrel, strengthening, humbling, consuming, and I simply thought I would never go through it. But I did.

I'm on the other side now. I went through each and every step prayerfully, broken, humbled, and hoping that each decision would be pleasing to God inspite of my circumstances. My friends are still my friends.

1 comment:

Helene said...

I am soooo happy for you Kev! You are right... there is hope after what seems to be an end. Your faith, though I dont share it, impresses and inspires me. I am not sure if that makes sense... I suppose I am in awe of it to some degree.

I have enjoyed the photos and being able to be a bit of a fly on the wall on FB! Even your son looks wildly happy! Alls well that ends well it seems!

Best of luck to you and congrats!